TikTok sensations known as The Old Gays—Robert Reeves, Michael ‘Mick’ Peterson, Bill Lyons, and Jessay Martin—have carved out a unique and beloved space within the gay community with their sharp wit and candid humour. Far from holding back, they openly celebrate the joys of queer life, famously declaring ‘The sex!’ as their favourite aspect in a recent interview. Their magnetic personalities have earned them millions of admirers online and now inspire a broader audience with the launch of their podcast, Silver Linings with The Old Gays.
The podcast offers an intimate blend of storytelling, laughter, and thoughtful reflections that span gay history, dating escapades, and the complexities of relationships from the perspective of elder queer men. This conscientious bridging of generational gaps is at the core of their mission. Peterson, reflecting on how younger generations often view the era they came of age in as a ‘dark age,’ counters with the reminder that those times had their own vibrancy and joy despite the tragedies, notably the AIDS crisis of the 1980s. ‘It was a whole lot of fun despite all of the terrible tragedies,’ he said, keen to correct misconceptions and highlight resilience and community spirit.
Historical awareness remains a pivotal theme. Lyons expressed how educating audiences about the depths of queer history holds special significance for the group and their followers. This focus enriches the podcast’s role as more than just entertainment—it’s a repository of lived experience and lessons from decades past. Yet, the inescapable levity shines through; when asked about the best part of being queer, Lyons cheekily attributed it to ‘having sex with men,’ acknowledging the personal growth and deep connections the group has shared along the way.
Beyond humour and history, the podcast also explores the deeper emotional fabric of queer life, such as the concept of chosen family and the journey towards self-acceptance. Jessay Martin poignantly stated, ‘I don’t need the world to love me, because I love me. People who matter are already in my life, helping me grow.’
The Old Gays’ appeal rests not only in their infectious charisma but also in their ability to inspire through a blend of humour, wisdom, and honesty. Their rise from TikTok personalities to podcasters—coupled with their recent venture into authorship, having published a guide to life and living—demonstrates their expanding impact across multiple platforms. They remind their audience that ageing should be embraced as a privilege, with a rich tapestry of stories and experiences that continue to foster connection and understanding across the LGBTQ+ spectrum.
Source: Noah Wire Services